Spoiled

When I say I do things for this man that I wouldn't do for anyone else, I mean it. So we went looking for his wedding band for like the fifth time within the past 3 weeks and finally made a decision. Zales had the perfect ring for the perfect price. I had a set budget but he gave me that puppy dog look and talked about how nice this particular ring was. Well with a trade in that I had it knocked the price down a lot so I went ahead and got him the ring he wanted. I don't know why he wants something that blings so much. I mean geesh his ring damn near blings more than mine. I know he is happy that he gets a really nice ring with beautiful diamonds but he doesn't realize how spoiled he is. If he wasn't spoiled, then I most likely would've gotten him a $400 ring. Theres nothing wrong with a cheaper ring, it's just that we didn't see any worth buying or that fit his style. I'm glad hes happy with the ring though because he will be wearing it for the rest of life starting May 28, 2011.

Thankful

So I thought about the weekly arguments we have and I've come to the conclusion that our problems don't blow up when we are active or out and about. We went to Smuggler's Inn last Thursday to increase our knowledge of two stepping. It was actually cool because he did pretty good with me. I mean I'm no pro but I can do the basics and he was just learning. I would rather dance the night away with him even if he had two left feet, than to dance with someone else. Even going downtown to a bar to watch several football games is fun with him. Arguments are apart of a relationship but if I could diffuse a problem right before it starts, then I will. I just need to come up with more ideas to keep us active and having fun together. I really like to be spontaneous and not repeat the same things so sometimes it's hard. I am glad that he's not picky about the things we do together. I appreciate having someone who wants to do things with me and doesn't compalin about spending time with me. I thank God for sending me this companion. I couldn't imagine being without him.

New Ring

So this past Friday he decided to buy me a new ring. I absolutely love it. We have talked about it before but I guess I didn't think I would get it this soon. The ring I had before was pretty but I wanted something a little bigger and a lot better than what he gave his ex. I guess that was important to me because this is his second time around and I just want to feel special. He did let me know that he chose a ring without thinking about the size and style. He just knew that he didn't want to lose me again. I thought that was sooooooo sweet. However,  the new ring is absolutely beautiful and it shows how much he really loves me. He didn't have to get me something else but he did. Its extremely exciting to know that he aims to please me. I only want to do the same in return.

A Relaxing Weekend

Well Labor Day weekend was great! Not only did I have a break from teaching kids that cause mayhem, but I speant the whole time relaxing with my babe. Friday we finally made it to a Royals game. Um... they lost of course. Q pretty much watched me act silly while cheering for a losing team. Afterwards we went to Firefly to enjoy some real hip hop. I felt a little awkward because I had on tennis shoes and wasn't dressed appropriately. But I still had fun. Saturday we lounged and had dinner with my parents at Olive Garden. We really didn't feel like doing much so after dinner we just hung out at the house. Sunday for whatever reason we didn't wake up in time for church. Instead, we went and bought goodies for a beautiful picnic on a hill at the Plaza. It was sooooooo nice. We felt like we could lay there all night. Afterwards we went to the movies to see "Takers." Unfortunately, I fell asleep. I guess I had too much wine from the picnic. Monday was a day to just cuddle and do some house work. I guess this weekend was specail because I felt so close to him. There was no major arguments and I tried my hardest not to knit pick at every thing. This was actually the first weekend he referred to me as "Mrs. Jones." I'm so used to thinking that he should be lucky to be with me, but I believe that I'm also the lucky one.

Living Together

Well if you wake up to someone every day I'm sure more differences will appear. We barely argue about house keeping, but I do find myself knit picking about the little stuff. I guess his reaction to my knit picking is over the top and that is what causes huge arguments. But we know how to bounce back and that's for sure. We just attended a jazz thing with a live band this past Sunday in the Power and Light. It was great to be able to walk around, enjoy food, and listen to music together. I had a good time. It was amazing that the whole time we were there neither one of us drunk alcohol. We are fasting from certain things together in order to grow closer to God and better our relationship.So far things are working out for us. I'm glad that we pray together and are headed towards the right path.I even let go of some male friends that I thought would be hard to dismiss. It is all for the best.

Afraid of the Future

Communication is an important tool in all relationships. Unfortunately, mine lacks it. Well he wanted to have a talk about our move to Dallas after the wedding. He basically said that he doesn't want to move there or any where else in Texas because he's afraid I will contact a long time guy friend. So me and this long time friend have been romantically involved once before but it only lasted for a couple of month. This guy has been my friend for 7 years and I feel like I can't let him go. I'll always care about him, but I care about my fiance more. I have planned on moving to Dallas for the past 3 years and I just knew that next year I would make it. I'm sad that he brought this up now. He never had a problem before. Now he wants to move to Georgia. Now don't get me wrong. I have always said that I want to be married and have a house built in the country side of Georgia, but I wanted to go to Texas first. I'm starting to get a little anxiety about getting married. I know that I'll be happy with my hubby to be, but I don't want to have any "what if's."

Early Purchases

Today we decided to go to Hobby Lobby and purchase a couple of items for the wedding. This was actually my first time buying anything for the wedding. He bought the invitations that we are designing a month ago. I was glad that we are getting things early, especially while the wedding stuff is on sale. We picked up our guest book and pen set, and the ring pillow. Whenever the fake flowers go on sale, then we'll pick those up for decorations. I still have plenty of items to get as far as decorations, but I was hoping my bridesmaids would jump in and help. Right now I am very doubtful they would be willing to do that . Since a lot of the items are on sale throughout the year at Hobby Lobby, I would only need each of them to committ to spending around $10 a piece. Well....... it's just a thought anyway. I guess I didn't realize how expensive a wedding can be. I also thought it would be a good idea to designate certain people (family) to purchase specific items. I know that me and future hubby can't afford everything and so far the plan is in effect. My parents have already discussed what they are donating and purchasing. I am usually a last minute person so this is really good for me to have a jump start. I can't wait for more wedding items to be purchased, but I need to budget carefully.

Keeping the Youth Inside

So today we are going to a comedy show and I am excited. We have never been to a comedy show together and we are in much need of laughter. There is a bit of an age difference between us. Well, about 8 years difference. That's why I feel it is important to be active in order to restore the youth in our relationship. We often take long bike rides, swim, and play tennis together. I guess our favorite is enjoying the night life together. We definitely know how to party. I appreciate the fact that he does things that I would like to do without putting up a fuss. I like to be serious in my relationship but my silliness does come out when I'm enjoying myself. I want to continue to be silly with him and still be accepted. Our spontaneous activities is part of what keeps us going.

Too Many Jones'

Well I was thinking today what it would be like to have a new last name and I remember a talk him and I once had. Well he wants me to totally drop my maiden name but I would like to keep it. Don't get me wrong, I would love to add his name but with a hyphen. So I asked if his ex-wife still has his name and said he doesn't know and doesn't care. Ummmmm....... really? I really don't want her to still have his last name. I mean I guess I can see her keeping it for their daughter, but I don't like to share. I guess it's common for women in his family to keep names. His father is remarried and his mother still has Jones as her last name. I'm trying not to let it bother me. I just wish he cared about the possibility. Hopefully she hasn't kept the name.

The beginning

So my fiance Quincy is out of town right now for work and I am up trying to find ways to occupy my time. Every week he leaves out of town and I miss him much. I started blogging about my life and relationships awhile ago but decided to start fresh and only blog about me and future hubby. I thought that blogging about us until we're married would be a great thing to do. Now I can't share all of the juicy details of our relationship, but I will share enough. Right now I miss him and we send pictures back and forth through our phones. The pictures remind me of that wonderful smile that I will see for the rest of my life. Our day of marital bliss will come in 280 days and I am excited. This is my first and only marriage while this happens to be his second. He proposed this past Valentines Day and even though I was blind sided by it, I happily accepted. I continuously face trials and tribulations while preparing for this wedding and I actually believe more things are apparent now that we are engaged. However, he is my love and my quest has just begun.